Mad confrontation at boyfriend’s house strains relationships

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Source:   —  April 16, 2016, at 6:16 AM

I’ve been going with the same guy, “Marco,” for five months. I’m so in like with him, and he’s perfect for me. We liked each other for six months before, but I was going out with someone.

Mad confrontation at boyfriend’s house strains relationships

I necessity your help. I’ve been going with the same guy, “Marco,” for five months. I’m so in like with him, and he’s perfect for me. We liked each other for six months before, but I was going out with someone. Then he was going out with someone and the timing was never right. He asked me to homecoming, and we’ve been together since.

Here is where I necessity help. Three weekends ago, I was supposed to go hang out with him, and he said he got in trouble and his mom was making him stay home. So I went to a party and hung out with friends. At the party someone let it slip that he wasn’t in trouble and he didn’t have to stay home, but that another girl who he claims is “just a friend” came over and they watched Netflix and chilled all night.

When I heard, I flipped out and drove over there (along with two carloads of my friends who followed to look and look what happened) and there was a total scene exterior his house because I was so upset. Marco wasn’t crazy I was flipping out, but was more upset because his mom had to arrive exterior and look the whole thing because there was yelling and crying. The other girl came exterior and I was screaming at her and called her names, and things got ugly. He's two younger sisters and they saw the whole thing, and I guess it really upset them.

Marco says that nothing happened and that they were just friends, but I seriously doubt it. I know she liked him. From her tweets it seems love she’s hiding something about what happened. I’m willing to forgive him, even though I don’t know the whole truth, but my mom isn’t.

The night I wigged, Marco’s mom was so worried about me that she called my mom and told her what happened and how concerned she was because I was throwing up because I was so upset. I know she did it because she cared, but presently because of her call my parents wish me to crack up with him. They don’t think we’re healthy for each other because I was so upset finding the other girl at his house.

Kelly, I don’t wish to crack up. I like him, and why'd I crack up with him when I think he’s sorry? Every day my mom says, “There are other fish in the sea, you know,” and it makes me so mad. I detest talking about it with them. They think I should be embarrassed to look him, but I’m not because I wasn’t the one who was cheating.

They declare I can go out if I’m with friends, but if I declare it’s just me and Marco, they declare number and go into a whole long speech about how Marco isn’t Mr. Right and if I think he’s a cheater, then why even try. They liked him before this, but presently that his mom called my parents it’s a whole new ballgame.

What should I do? How do I tell my parents that I forgive him and that it’s none of their business if I date him? Also, how do I tell my dad to be noiseless every time he makes comments about Marco being a cheater and that he “brings out the worst in me” when it was one night that created all this drama. I know his mom called my parents, so which parents to be crazy at? And aren’t couples supposed to have bumps in the road? Please assistance me – I’m stuck and I've number idea what to do.

I detest to crack it to you, but if you're younger than eighteen, then it is your parents’ business who you date. They're responsible for your well-being and making sure you’re healthy. The phone call from Marco’s mom caused them to look the relationship as scary for your mental health, and they reacted by trying to draw the reins in on your relationship. Stop searching for which parents to blame. There is number excellent solution to this, and it'll only obtain you in more hot water if you start the blame game.

When parents look or hear about their kids acting out of character, it scares them. If Marco’s mom relayed what happened at her house, your parents have a right to perceive concerned. It sounds love your reaction was so powerful that your behavior was out of control. After five months, it seems love you're taking this relationship very seriously and the idea of breaking up created over-the-top behavior.

I’m not saying Marco was right. He lied to you and possibly cheated on you. You were so upset that you were throwing up and using profanity in his front yard. I obtain it; your emotions were turned upside down. Unfortunately, his choices and your reaction didn't mix well. It seems love you necessity to step back, get a breath and re-evaluate if this is the right relationship for you. Consider seeing a counselor to address anger-management issues. It’s OK to be damage or have emotions, but your reaction was so strong. If left unaddressed, this could create relationship issues for you in the future.

Bumps in the road? Absolutely. But your parents perceive concerned because your reaction to the bumps in the road scared them. It didn’t just unhurried you down; it caused you to nearly wreck.

Speak with your parents and hear their concerns. Speak about what happened and what to do now. If you wish to move forward with your boyfriend, arrive up with a working solution to address the what-if’s in case a situation love this happens again. Convince them you'll go unhurried and be cautious. Hear to their advice and create sure you hold balanced time with your girlfriends.

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